Divorce Saga: Anita Finally Speaks Up!
Anita Oyakhilome , who now goes by her maiden name Ebhodaghe has finally spoken out about her rift and divorce with husband, Chris Oyakhilome.
Anita Oyakhilome , who now goes by her maiden name Ebhodaghe has finally spoken out about her rift and divorce with husband, Chris Oyakhilome.
The news and controversy that surrounded their divorce caused quite a stir amongst their admirers and church members.
The divorce was filed in April 9, 2014 at Divorce Section A, Central
Family Court, First Avenue House, High Holborn, London, United Kingdom
on the grounds of “unreasonable behaviour” .
She has now chosen to address the divorce and tell her side of the story.
Anita took to her blog to discuss how her life has been changing as of
late making some serious references to her marriage as she wrote. She
wrote:
It is my desire to reach out and inspire you especially if you feel
vulnerable and in need of a change. I hope to inspire you to believe in
yourself no matter the circumstances. I want to help you recreate your
life going forward, so you can live beautifully. I have been through
this journey of rediscovery and nothing is as beautiful as realising
one’s uniqueness as I have done. Life is a precious however, your life
can go through different seasons: winter, spring, summer or autumn. Life
can hit you with financial loss, disappointments, death of a loved one,
a broken relationship, loss of a job, a divorce, being falsely accused
or being a victim of crime. These can shatter you to pieces but you can
do something about it.
Life is a gift from God and you deserve to be happy irrespective of
your age, race, gender, background or financial situation. I urge you to
appreciate the gift you are, you are precious and valuable. Never lose
sight of who you are; begin to create new visions and dreams for your
life. Let nothing stop you from growing every day. My story is not one
of a bed of roses, far from it but I had a choice to either beat myself
over the regret of tolerating abuse for so long or put a stop to the
abuse and recreate my life for the best. My journey was not in vain. I
can now help others realise that their situation does not define them.
In order to move on with life, I have come to realise that nothing
is permanent. Your problem is not permanent; you can do something to
change it by ensuring you do not allow the situation or the person make
your life miserable. Pain is a fact of life, it is inevitable but
suffering is optional. You can do something to change the pain by over
looking every obstacle, take control as a force of nature to grow and
expand. Do what is necessary now to use the gift God has given you to
unleash your purpose.
My message to all is simple: you have value therefore discover your
potential. Do not allow anybody destroy you or rob you of living a
joyful life. Your life is not wasted; you have just started a different
phase of life. God will show you how to use your testimony to help
others and restore their lives to exuberance. Please join me to
encourage and inspire others. You have a story to tell, you can
contribute and participate in the dialogues here. Let us all learn from
one another’s experience and reach others with the gift of love and
kindness. Share your experience by emailing me or making a comment.
Celebrate your uniqueness because there is only one of you.
Pastor Anita has a new book coming titled “100 Ways To Cherish Yourself And Get Back On Your Feet”
At Last: Pastor Chris Oyakhilome’s Wife, Anita Finally Speaks Up!
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